​How to use BDSM kit? Bondage techniques for the bedroom explained

Bondage is part of BDSM. It is an erotic game that revolves around restricting one's freedom of movement. To apply this in the bedroom, you can use different techniques. We explain!

What is a BDSM kit? Bondage and Discipline

BDSM stands for Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS) and Sadism and Masochism (SM). So bondage and discipline often go hand in hand: restricting one's freedom of movement is often combined with exercising control. The person who is tied up is often the submissive , also called sub , who gives control to the Dominant ( Dom ).

How to use BDSM kit? Different Bondage Techniques

In addition to tying someone to an object (such as a bed), bondage can also be used to hold body parts together or pull them apart. In this way, some parts of the body can be opened or spread. This allows for certain sexual acts, such as oral sex or stimulation with a sex toy from VIVA AWA.

In addition to depriving someone of freedom of movement, bondage can also be used to experiment with depriving the senses. For example, silence someone with a ball gag or hide your submissive from sight with a blindfold or bondage mask. Several bondage masks are even designed to cover the mouth, eyes, nose and ears.

Self bondage

Bondage is a beautiful and kinky way to bring out your sinful side. One of the most advanced forms of bondage is self- bondage: bondage without the help of a partner. This advanced style carries more risk than other forms. There is a chance that something will go wrong. In such a case, there is no one around to intervene. The consequences can then be very serious.

Ways to perform self bondage safely

Avoid mouthpieces or hoods.

Have a partner in the same room.

Use toys with a quick-release closure. These closures can be released quickly and easily.

Avoid handcuffs, ropes and belts that are too tight.

Safety comes first

Before you start experimenting with bondage, it's important to discuss what you'd like to try. Often you only find out what you like when you've tried it. However, never push the other person. To avoid annoying and dangerous situations, it is important to agree on a safe word or stop sign. The sub can use this to indicate a boundary. The Dom must never ignore this word or sign.

What is BDSM kit? Bondage toys and how to use them

Easy to use: Bondage tape

Bondage tape is an easy to use , yet versatile product. The tape is made of PVC. The big advantage of bondage tape is that it is easy to use. You can quickly tie the sub, but also easily untie it. The tape does not stick to the skin : it sticks to another piece of tape by itself. That makes this product particularly suitable for beginners !

Make sure the tape is not too tight, unless constriction is the very purpose of the bondage. Severe pain, tingling, and numbness are signs that the tape is too tight. As a precaution, always have a pair of bandage scissors ready so that the tape can be easily cut when necessary.

Rope bondage: in control!

Would you like to go a step further? Then you can opt for bondage rope. Rope is rougher to use than bondage tape. It is therefore suitable for tying off body parts. As a result, the tied-off part will swell. This can be exciting and causes a pain stimulus.

There are different types of rope available. Cotton rope is relatively affordable and soft to the touch, but it does require regular washing and drying to keep it clean. Hemp rope is stronger, but also rougher than cotton. Jute rope looks very nice, but is less strong than hemp. Finally, there are plastic ropes. These are very strong, they have a short drying time and are not susceptible to mould. You do run the risk of being burned with the use of plastic rope.

The use of buoys

Buoys are very suitable to restrict the sub's freedom of movement. To do this, different types of buoys can be used:

Handcuffs : These cuffs are meant to bind the sub's wrists. For beginners, we recommend using cuffs made of a soft material, such as plush or satin. This material is kind to the skin. Leather or metal cuffs are very suitable for the experienced BDSM person.

Ankle Cuffs : These are cuffs used to tie the ankles.

Hanging buoys : these buoys are specially designed to hang the sub. For example on the ceiling, on the door or on the wall (a solid wall is a requirement). The toys are made of soft materials, so that the cuffs do not cut into the skin. A special form using hanging shackles is suspension bondage.

Cuff set : This is a set of different cuffs , possibly combined with other bondage toys , such as a bondage harness or a bondage collar.

Bondage Spread Eagle

The Spread Eagle is a well-known bondage position. If you have a head and foot support that allows you to loop cuffs, you can perform this position with most sets of cuffs. If you don't have this, a spreader bar is an excellent alternative!

With a spreader bar you can spread the arms and legs of the tied partner apart , so that the body lies in an X-shape and you as a partner have complete freedom to stimulate the tied person orally, vaginally or anally.

Hogties and bondage harnesses

A hogtie is a bondage toy with which the hands and feet can be tied together behind the back . Do you want to connect several body parts at the front? The bondage harnesses are very suitable for this. Once you get used to bondage positions that bind your partner's limbs together , try bondage that spreads the limbs. To do this, attach the ankles to both corners of the bed. You can then attach the wrists to the edges of the bed. A bondage harness is an ideal toy to do this!

Hogtie position

The partner who is tied up lies on her or his stomach and reaches with her hands to her ankles. The leading partner can then secure the wrists to the ankles using the hogtie. The position does not really lend itself to penetration, but is nevertheless very arousing because the tied person is completely at the mercy of the leading partner.

Depriving the senses

In addition to restricting someone's freedom of movement, one can also play with the deprivation of the senses. For example, a BDSM mask can be used to obscure someone's view. Want to silence your sub ? Then a ball gag or bit gag is suitable for that.